Ugs, good reply mate, thank you for your honesty.
In my mind you have never really been a troll, more like showed some troll like tendencies at times. If you looked back through my comments you would see that I have never been wholeheartedly an AVB supporter, in fact I shared some of the misgivings of some. What I do have a problem with, is when some people unfairly dismiss the value of another human being without any thought of the consequence.
From the start AVB was going to face extreme pressure, he had a hard act to follow and the Chelsea experience added to this. The way the media have portrayed him has not been fair. When a man gets it wrong, call him on it. Forgive him and let him learn from his mistakes. If he does again help him learn the error of his ways. If he does not learn from these, after a third time, get him to do something else.
AVB is by no way exempt from criticism and he still has a lot to learn. But if he is a willing student, works hard to overcome difficulty and listens to sensible advice whilst also knowing his own mind. Maybe, just maybe he has the opportunity to develop into a great manager.
My question is this:
If he does (and it is a long shot) develop into a great manager and brings success to the club, wouldn't you rather be part of the process, giving support, helping him to learn and allowing him to grow? Or do you think that people learn best when in fear of failure, rejection and having their confidence depleted? As a teacher I can guarantee you that the second method has a success rate of 0.
Oh and as for the holding on so tight. I really do not think that was anger and hostility. To me that looked like a man who was desperate to win. I think he has put himself under more pressure than what the Trolls and media have exerted on him. I do agree though that this is not good for his health in the long term, but a few more results like that and maybe he will relax a bit.