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It's very frustrating when someone won't listen to sense, and has an argument based on what he would like to happen, rather than strategic application.
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Yes accepting that others do not agree with your viewpoint can be frustrating. Particularly, when for you it all seems so clear. But you have to remember that A-another will also be feeling the same way. Telling someone what to think does not work. Putting your views out there in a way that is less forthright will allow others the chance to acknowledge what you have said and then decide if they agree with it or not.
Unfortunately some will still try and create opposition to it or are so introverted and closed, that whenever someone else suggests something outside of their own world view, they put up defences to block it out, even when faced with truth.
To give an example outside of football. Look at racism - it is a stupid idea, we are all the same and there is no reason why one human being should be considered better than another based on something as ridiculous as the pigment contained in someone's skin. Yet, talk to someone from a nazi belief system and you could argue all day but I doubt that anyone would have much luck changing their perceptions. Even if you kept saying the same things to them, which were considered to be the truth, it would not impact on the way they thought.
If you want to go deeper still, everything that we discuss on here is through the use of our conscious minds. Which is great for having a discussion and using ideas and evidence etc. Our conscious minds think about the past and the future and works using our short term memory. But our belief systems are based in our sub-conscious minds which cannot be accessed easily in this way. It is based on the present moment but also uses our long term memory.
Which is why most people on here keep putting their views across to all that will hear them. But look through and find some examples when someone has actually changed their views. I would invite the opportunity for more of this to take place but it would require us to suspend our usual habits and to try and think differently around certain issues.
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Well done. You just managed to post a really long statement, and I don't think I agreed with any of it.